Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, June 6, 2011

This says it all....

So my first interruption of the new and improved Jordan Family has happened.
 Most of you may be thinking already but its only June??? Yes already! See
 Coach has decided to increase his networking by taking an 9 day trip to Winnipeg!!!
 He was able to get a guest coaching spot with the Winnipeg Blue Bombers(CFL).

I'm currently on day 3 of a 9 day interruption. Although I'm sure that many a fellow
 football wife would say that having him home is more of the change from the norm..
.but more on that later. Back to Day 3! Although he's "only" in Canada the
constraints of the schedule have limited any chance to talk, not to mention that it
 cost $.20 a minute to call home...thank goodness for free text messages!

So our conversations have been very limited and since Coach is admittedly not a
 fan of texting we have not spent very much time at all in conversation. For the
 average person this may not be such a big deal but for me it sort of is. See Coach
 is pretty much my only friend. A lot of you will say that isn't true but honestly
 I can count on less than one hand the people who text,message, or  try to talk to me
 at least bi-weekly(not even talking about weekly here) Anyway I digress that is
 a topic for another blog....

Not having anybody around can be a little challenging. It sure can be depressing,
especially when one sees picture after picture of people partying and having fun
 on FB. Knowing that my daily routine is pretty much a combination of school work,
 childcare and homework can lead to some melancholy. Ok I'm way off track now....

Back to Day 3! So today I sat down and made a list of some things, people and
 places that I can use to get me through the "interruptions" set to come in this crazy
 thing we call a life. I'm not gonna post the list today, it may be used for another day
 but at any rate "blog posting" was involved in the list.. I'm trying to decide how to set
up the posts I'm looking at doing...I also have a blog name change in mind...More on
 that in coming days and weeks... Anyway enjoy and thanks for reading!

Monday, May 9, 2011

Something old, Something new!

So its time....time for the big move! Well honestly anyone that
knows us knows that since March 2008 we have moved 6 times
this will be our 7th move!!! Needless to say I should be a pro
at all this moving stuff.

Our moves have been filled with excitement and hope, as we are
now and sadness and tears as a couple of moves in the past
have been.

It's never easy to move, for me it requires sorting out stuff and
letting go of lots of things that don't need to take up room.
You'd be surprised what you decide is nescessary and what
isn't when you move as much as we have.

Moving allows us to evaluate what is really important
to us. It allows us to let go of that shirt we haven't
worn in 10 years and to store away that little
trinket box from our friend we love so much.
It reminds us of those that really love us and
not just those that claim to care.

Moving also allows us to clean out some room for
the new experiences, and things that we can look
forward to in our next place. It allows us to
collect new things, or add to a unique
collection that we have.

For me, a person who likes to cook, I collect
recipes from the gals I meet. I also pick up the joy of trying
new things. In NC I picked up several recipes for soul
food. In Cornell I learned about wine and got a
recipe for a delicious hash brown casserole.
In WNY(my birthplace), I picked up recipes for
Chicken wing dip!

I also collect recipes for life. These ones are a little
more interesting. All the people I have met have taught me a
lot about life, love, living, dieing, and lets not forget football.

The blessing of moving allows us to free up space in
our houses and our hearts to make room for the new.
I think many of us hang on to things long past the usefullness.

We hoard things because they remind us of something special,
a special person, a special moment, a special place. It's good to have
some reminders of things. It's good to hold on to things
that we would like to pass on to people in our future.

But take it from a pro mover, your heart like your home
can only hold so many things and sometimes we have
to clean it out in order to make room for new things.

So as I move I will have two special boxes, one
I will mark with the word "Something Old". This box
will contain the things that are special to me
the jewelry from NC friends, or my Cornell sweatshirt,
my WNY photos and the special things that I have in my life
from all the places that I have been.  The second
box will say "Something New". This box will hold the
new things that I will get when I'm in my
new place.

When it comes time to move again, as I am
hoping that we will move(It'll mean something good for us). I
will look through the "something new" and transfer those
things to the "something old" box and begin the
journey anew!!!